tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27844385.post115552469917440340..comments2023-04-04T08:57:26.955-05:00Comments on SunnieFaerie: Happy BirthdaySunnie (Kaytee)http://www.blogger.com/profile/08042108320281667419noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27844385.post-1155665961621077042006-08-15T13:19:00.000-05:002006-08-15T13:19:00.000-05:00Hey girly - hugs and kisses to you both... I know ...Hey girly - hugs and kisses to you both... I know how difficult it is for you. I made a very difficult choice and regret it to this day - I know it doesnt compare to loosing a child (children in your case) like you but even after 12 years it still hurts to think about it. The only advice I have for you is to try and not dwell. Go on with daily life; laugh and smile with the little ones you do have... I know it's a cliché "they are in a better place" but it does help to think that way. Some people ask "Dont you wish you could just forget?" I tell them no - I dont want to forget it - I just would like the pain of it to go away. The other cliché - "it gets better with time" it is true to a certain point - I think it gets easier in the fact that I just dont think about it as much anymore... but when I do it still hurts just as much... we just learn over time to move on. ~~T~~Brigidhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01267197534811888817noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27844385.post-1155528892308213462006-08-13T23:14:00.000-05:002006-08-13T23:14:00.000-05:00It's very difficult for me. I tried all day to be ...It's very difficult for me. I tried all day to be upbeat and everything. But this evening, it just got the best of me and I broke down in Jimmy's arms. He's been in bed for about an hour and I'm still crying. Though I have to agree with Jimmy when we were both crying and Jackson crawled over to us and stood up and hugged us, he said, "That sweet baby is worth it." And yes he is, but it doesn't take the hurt or the pain away.Sunnie (Kaytee)https://www.blogger.com/profile/08042108320281667419noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27844385.post-1155527643276146812006-08-13T22:54:00.000-05:002006-08-13T22:54:00.000-05:00This is a difficult anniversary for you, isn't it?...This is a difficult anniversary for you, isn't it? Thank you for the courage to share.<BR/>{{{{Sunnie}}}}Amihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08353667980806676067noreply@blogger.com